August 2011 Postings...
08.30.11 geoffrey h. - a new beginning;
My first experience spending significant time with Bill Nathan, Walnes Cangas, and Renee Dietrich was this past summer at Holden Village in Washington State. Aside from being a tremendously beautiful setting, Holden afforded ample opportunities to learn, worship, and get to know others on a more personal level. I particularly enjoyed having the chance to watch Bill, Walnes, and Renee share their stories about SJF—many of which were emotional outpourings about how they came to be a part of SJF and the good times and hard times, including the 2010 earthquake, which shattered Haiti’s reality. When my week at Holden was finished, I came away with a new understanding of how a natural disaster on the scale of the 2010 earthquake can result in profound and unique grief for millions of individuals—almost everyone in Haiti either lost a loved one, a home, or a business—or at least knew someone who had experienced such a loss. It is almost unimaginable to imagine loss on a countrywide scale, but that is what happened in Haiti on January 12th, 2010. However, as heartwarming as this disaster was heart wrenching, has been the experience of standing witness to the solidarity and resolve of the Haitian people. When faced with profound loss, there was prayer, song, passion, and love. When robbed of worldly possessions, there was humanity and humility. When faith was called into question, there was reaffirmation. The SJF exemplifies this spirit and, in the weeks and months following the earthquake, thousands of friends reached out to show their support for this mission of strength, courage, and unflinching resolve. Today, nearly two years after the earthquake turned Haiti upside down and destroyed the St. Joseph’s Home for Boys and Wings of Hope, the Family is stronger than ever—with fresh perspectives to draw upon and new histories to write. In Renee, Bill, Walnes, Michael, Jacky, Melchi, Maya, and every other member of the SJF lies the future of Haiti—and in their collective spirit I am motivated into action.
08.28.11 michael g. - dear hearts;
Upbeat and positive, forward-moving thoughts and actions: we have been making some home improvements to our SJ kitchen. It is said that the kitchen is the heart of the home. With that in mind we have been brightening our home-heart, making it more cheerful and welcoming. The end result is that we are reflecting a positive and prosperous image to all who come to our family home. It is interesting to note that through the window behind the statue of St. Michael the archangel we have a clear view of the rising up of the new St. Joseph home, now completing it's fifth floor and towering with a message of triumph over adversity. The statue of St. Michael, which dominates the kitchen, is also a reminder of victory over evil. In our family kitchen, our home-heart, we remind ourselves that we are surrounded and protected by angels. No need for fear, anxiety nor drabness. We are in a time of testing, but also a time of being strengthened in our faith. It is a time to be joyful and hopeful, a time to freshen up, a time to shine! The kitchen actually has five representations of angels in it, counting St. Michael. It is a reminder of the verse from today's Scripture which tells us that Jesus will be coming with his angels in his Father's glory. We are ready to welcome him. We even have a cold water dispenser next to the statue of St. Michael to give our traditional thirst quenching welcome glass of water. Here are some photos of our refurbished kitchen, our vibrant home-heart, our center of hospitality, where Jesus is welcomed and received with joy. It is interesting to note that many items in the kitchen are things we salvaged from our old St. Joseph home after the earthquake. Those salvaged items are: the multicolored kitchen curtains, the former chapel chairs that now have recovered cushions and are used as kitchen table chairs, the hanging papier mache fruit, the paintings, the stove, the refrigerator, the ceramic plates and ceramic angels, the icon of St. Matin De Porres. We have also included a photo of our garden chapel, our home-soul. Enjoy these heart and soul pictures. Hopefully they will encourage you to come to our home where you will receive the welcome of Jesus. Peace and continued good -----Michael and family (photos right column).
08.26.11 michael g. - haiti sings;
Last year Peace Tones set up HAITI SINGS to shine a light on the musical gifts of the Haitian people. It was a competition much like America's Got Talent and Dancing With The Stars, where the public voted by sending in emails. Two of our St. Joseph Family members participated in this competition. Bill Nathan as a drummer and Wootrod Joly as a singer. Both of our SJF representatives made it to the final five of the competition but did not actually win the event. Peace Tones has now decided to produce a CD showcasing the music of the top five finalists of the HAITI SINGS competition. Yesterday those five Haitian youth met here at St. Joseph's to discuss the details of this project as well as sign the contract for it. It has been decided that the proceeds from the sale of the CD will go to benefit some good cause in Haiti. Our St. Joseph Family is one of the projects being considered as a beneficiary of the CD sales. The choice of what organization receives the profits from the CD will be determined by the final five who are offering their names and talents to the CD. As part of the meeting yesterday each of the five participants recorded their songs and Bill his drumming. It is hoped that the CD will be ready in March of 2012. Peace and continued good ----Michael
08.25.11 lucy d. - my story;
I have been a supporter of the St. Joseph Family in Haiti since before the homes had names, when it was simply called "Michael's house". From my first visit to my last, prayer is at the center of the family. The day starts with prayer and ends with prayer. Evening prayer is special as it also includes a family meeting. Every night the boys are recognized for the things that they have done that day to make it special for someone else. How many of us can say we had daily meetings of the family? As you enter the house and are met with an ice cold glass of water and a welcoming song you can feel the joy of every member of this remarkable family. You are welcomed as a family member. The boys have duties in the home just as our children have duties in our homes. It is wonderful to return every time to see how much they have grown as prospered. Over these 26 years I have seen many members of this special family go on to prosper on their own.
08.24.11 john r. - my story;The U.P.C. has been committed to the work of St. Joseph's now for about 15 years and we have been fortunate enough to host Michael and the boys here in Chapel Hill on occasion. It was not long after I arrived at UPC in 2008 when Kay Leaman (church member) introduced me to St. Joseph's work in Haiti. Just like Kay, she did not stop there. Kay said I needed to go see for myself. I am now entering my fourth year at UPC as their Associate Minister for Campus Ministry and Outreach and I have been to Haiti once with church members and just this past spring break with a group of our students as well as planning a state-wide presbytery student trip again this coming 2012 spring break. It is a life-changing relationship that continues to shape me even on days like this when I am in my Chapel Hill office looking at canvas paintings I purchased on the streets of Haiti. More than anything I am reminded of the transformative power that exudes from Christ's continued work in this world. Reading from the lection this week from Romans, I am also reminded that the transformation we experience in Christ translates into how we open up our lives to serve and love others here and afar. What a joy it has been to see our students' lives change as they spent a week of their life in Haiti this past spring! Living in the community afforded to us at St. Joseph's be it in Port au Prince, Fermathe, or Jacmel, models of the Spirit's activity in what is not a broken place or a country in ruin, rather, one with a people who see God's unending promise to provide. I am thankful I have and continue to be a part of what is happening their and the fact that I feel as much a part of the St. Joseph's family here as if I was bunking there right now or pouring a cup of cold water over my head in the bath. Thank you, Michael, Renee, KC, Walnes, Jacky, and all that make our relationship such a pleasant and rewarding one. Looking forward to many years to come and seeing how more than the rebuilding of the property, the ways God continues to govern and bless your ministry in Haiti.
My first experience spending significant time with Bill Nathan, Walnes Cangas, and Renee Dietrich was this past summer at Holden Village in Washington State. Aside from being a tremendously beautiful setting, Holden afforded ample opportunities to learn, worship, and get to know others on a more personal level. I particularly enjoyed having the chance to watch Bill, Walnes, and Renee share their stories about SJF—many of which were emotional outpourings about how they came to be a part of SJF and the good times and hard times, including the 2010 earthquake, which shattered Haiti’s reality. When my week at Holden was finished, I came away with a new understanding of how a natural disaster on the scale of the 2010 earthquake can result in profound and unique grief for millions of individuals—almost everyone in Haiti either lost a loved one, a home, or a business—or at least knew someone who had experienced such a loss. It is almost unimaginable to imagine loss on a countrywide scale, but that is what happened in Haiti on January 12th, 2010. However, as heartwarming as this disaster was heart wrenching, has been the experience of standing witness to the solidarity and resolve of the Haitian people. When faced with profound loss, there was prayer, song, passion, and love. When robbed of worldly possessions, there was humanity and humility. When faith was called into question, there was reaffirmation. The SJF exemplifies this spirit and, in the weeks and months following the earthquake, thousands of friends reached out to show their support for this mission of strength, courage, and unflinching resolve. Today, nearly two years after the earthquake turned Haiti upside down and destroyed the St. Joseph’s Home for Boys and Wings of Hope, the Family is stronger than ever—with fresh perspectives to draw upon and new histories to write. In Renee, Bill, Walnes, Michael, Jacky, Melchi, Maya, and every other member of the SJF lies the future of Haiti—and in their collective spirit I am motivated into action.
08.28.11 michael g. - dear hearts;
Upbeat and positive, forward-moving thoughts and actions: we have been making some home improvements to our SJ kitchen. It is said that the kitchen is the heart of the home. With that in mind we have been brightening our home-heart, making it more cheerful and welcoming. The end result is that we are reflecting a positive and prosperous image to all who come to our family home. It is interesting to note that through the window behind the statue of St. Michael the archangel we have a clear view of the rising up of the new St. Joseph home, now completing it's fifth floor and towering with a message of triumph over adversity. The statue of St. Michael, which dominates the kitchen, is also a reminder of victory over evil. In our family kitchen, our home-heart, we remind ourselves that we are surrounded and protected by angels. No need for fear, anxiety nor drabness. We are in a time of testing, but also a time of being strengthened in our faith. It is a time to be joyful and hopeful, a time to freshen up, a time to shine! The kitchen actually has five representations of angels in it, counting St. Michael. It is a reminder of the verse from today's Scripture which tells us that Jesus will be coming with his angels in his Father's glory. We are ready to welcome him. We even have a cold water dispenser next to the statue of St. Michael to give our traditional thirst quenching welcome glass of water. Here are some photos of our refurbished kitchen, our vibrant home-heart, our center of hospitality, where Jesus is welcomed and received with joy. It is interesting to note that many items in the kitchen are things we salvaged from our old St. Joseph home after the earthquake. Those salvaged items are: the multicolored kitchen curtains, the former chapel chairs that now have recovered cushions and are used as kitchen table chairs, the hanging papier mache fruit, the paintings, the stove, the refrigerator, the ceramic plates and ceramic angels, the icon of St. Matin De Porres. We have also included a photo of our garden chapel, our home-soul. Enjoy these heart and soul pictures. Hopefully they will encourage you to come to our home where you will receive the welcome of Jesus. Peace and continued good -----Michael and family (photos right column).
08.26.11 michael g. - haiti sings;
Last year Peace Tones set up HAITI SINGS to shine a light on the musical gifts of the Haitian people. It was a competition much like America's Got Talent and Dancing With The Stars, where the public voted by sending in emails. Two of our St. Joseph Family members participated in this competition. Bill Nathan as a drummer and Wootrod Joly as a singer. Both of our SJF representatives made it to the final five of the competition but did not actually win the event. Peace Tones has now decided to produce a CD showcasing the music of the top five finalists of the HAITI SINGS competition. Yesterday those five Haitian youth met here at St. Joseph's to discuss the details of this project as well as sign the contract for it. It has been decided that the proceeds from the sale of the CD will go to benefit some good cause in Haiti. Our St. Joseph Family is one of the projects being considered as a beneficiary of the CD sales. The choice of what organization receives the profits from the CD will be determined by the final five who are offering their names and talents to the CD. As part of the meeting yesterday each of the five participants recorded their songs and Bill his drumming. It is hoped that the CD will be ready in March of 2012. Peace and continued good ----Michael
08.25.11 lucy d. - my story;
I have been a supporter of the St. Joseph Family in Haiti since before the homes had names, when it was simply called "Michael's house". From my first visit to my last, prayer is at the center of the family. The day starts with prayer and ends with prayer. Evening prayer is special as it also includes a family meeting. Every night the boys are recognized for the things that they have done that day to make it special for someone else. How many of us can say we had daily meetings of the family? As you enter the house and are met with an ice cold glass of water and a welcoming song you can feel the joy of every member of this remarkable family. You are welcomed as a family member. The boys have duties in the home just as our children have duties in our homes. It is wonderful to return every time to see how much they have grown as prospered. Over these 26 years I have seen many members of this special family go on to prosper on their own.
08.24.11 john r. - my story;The U.P.C. has been committed to the work of St. Joseph's now for about 15 years and we have been fortunate enough to host Michael and the boys here in Chapel Hill on occasion. It was not long after I arrived at UPC in 2008 when Kay Leaman (church member) introduced me to St. Joseph's work in Haiti. Just like Kay, she did not stop there. Kay said I needed to go see for myself. I am now entering my fourth year at UPC as their Associate Minister for Campus Ministry and Outreach and I have been to Haiti once with church members and just this past spring break with a group of our students as well as planning a state-wide presbytery student trip again this coming 2012 spring break. It is a life-changing relationship that continues to shape me even on days like this when I am in my Chapel Hill office looking at canvas paintings I purchased on the streets of Haiti. More than anything I am reminded of the transformative power that exudes from Christ's continued work in this world. Reading from the lection this week from Romans, I am also reminded that the transformation we experience in Christ translates into how we open up our lives to serve and love others here and afar. What a joy it has been to see our students' lives change as they spent a week of their life in Haiti this past spring! Living in the community afforded to us at St. Joseph's be it in Port au Prince, Fermathe, or Jacmel, models of the Spirit's activity in what is not a broken place or a country in ruin, rather, one with a people who see God's unending promise to provide. I am thankful I have and continue to be a part of what is happening their and the fact that I feel as much a part of the St. Joseph's family here as if I was bunking there right now or pouring a cup of cold water over my head in the bath. Thank you, Michael, Renee, KC, Walnes, Jacky, and all that make our relationship such a pleasant and rewarding one. Looking forward to many years to come and seeing how more than the rebuilding of the property, the ways God continues to govern and bless your ministry in Haiti.
08.23.11 gwen w. - my story;
I first traveled to beautiful Haiti in 2000. I've made many trips
since then, because I desire the inspiration and humility I receive
from witnessing the dignity and perseverance of Haitian people who live under very challenging circumstances. I ask myself, “Where do they get their strength?” The best answer I can come up with is that strength comes from prayer. Travelers who stay at St. Joseph Family homes quickly learn that prayer is the heart of the St. Joseph Family. Bells ring every morning before dawn and children tumble out of bed, to join a prayer circle for conversation with God. Bells ring again just before nightfall and children return to the prayer circle, to give thanks to God for the day and to voice their thanks to each other for kindnesses received throughout the day. This pattern instructs my life. I am grateful. Is there anything people do that is more important than prayer? I don’t think so. Join me in prayer for the well-being of the St. Joseph Family and for all brothers and sisters in Haiti.
08.22.11 sally c. - christmas journal;
[Extracts from a December 2003 letter from Sally Cole to family and friends.] "Christmas really sneaked up on me this year". I don't often have access to a TV (and don't see all the ads) and ordinary Haitians can't afford to buy presents for their loved ones, so the holiday is viewed as Jesus' birthday party and is celebrated by attending church services, spending as much time as possible with family and friends and perhaps having a special meal on Christmas Eve. The St. Joseph's Family celebrations begin at Wings of Hope on the 23rd with a presentation by the kids of the Birth of Jesus story. Mary is portrayed by a beautiful 17-year-old deaf woman who is crippled but manages to look very pregnant and mystical with a pillow stuffed under her clothes. Last year was special because we had a real baby instead of a stuffed doll in the manger. Someone had abandoned at St. Joseph's door a couple of weeks before Christmas a little baby who was later diagnosed as disabled and moved to Wings. Given the timing and the lack of information about the child, he was called Baby Jesus, nicknamed BJ, and BJ had a starring role in last year's play. I expect that he will again this year. After the events on the 23rd, the next big deal is at St. Joseph's on Christmas Eve -- another re-enactment of the manger story with a different cast of characters, a couple of new dances performed by the dance troupe, then a feast of stuffed pastries and desserts, and a brew we call Pastor's Punch that is wicked and indeed delivers a punch if you don't watch out, and lots of music and dancing. Everyone sleeps in Christmas morning, the boys have whatever they want for meals all day long, and watch as much TV was they want. (So this doesn't sound too decadent, I should add that many of them elect to visit slum families in Cite Soleil that they have "adopted" and bring food, gifts, money, etc.) The "blancs" (foreigners) have a fun gift exchange Christmas morning in the kitchen after the boys have had breakfast. MICHAEL: This is the extent of my journal entry for pre-Christmas 2003. It brought back lots of happy memories. Enjoy!
08.21.11 rob p. - my story;
Three and a half years ago, I visited St. Joseph's almost on a whim with Sally Bates, Chaplain of Duke Divinity School. That trip changed everything in my life. This was a retreat in the "Spirituality of Mother Teresa" and Michael spoke of making yourself empty, open, and aware so that you can be receptive to Holy Spirit. He taught us to experience "Christ through relationship". I took this experience home and somehow it changed the way that I look at everything. I look at everything through the "lens" of Christianity and I eagerly try to experience Christ through friendships and those that I interact with. Since that visit, I have returned to St. Joseph's nine times. Michael's ministry is by far the most amazing and uplifting mission I have ever experienced. He gives kids with no future, the opportunity to excel and to become incredible leaders, by raising them in a warm, loving, Christian environment. I wanted others to experience this incredible place, so I started leading my own retreats in the "Spirituality of Mother Teresa", exposing as many people as possible to this ministry. What I enjoy the most about St. Joseph's is my relationship with the leadership and the kids. Bill Nathan, my prayer partner, has the most integrity of anyone I have ever met. His life story is inspiring and and he lives his faith with intention. Walnes is a joy to be around, and I see Christ in his smile and his good nature. Having spent a lot of time with Walnes and his friends, I have come to realize that he accepts people for who they are and he looks for the good in everyone. He often reaches out to those who are less fortunate and shares. He shares his time, his material things, and his positive outlook with friends, family members, and guests alike. The other leaders, Jacky, Maya, and Melshi, are a testimony to what it means to have grown up in the St. Joseph Family. I am constantly amazed by their drive and motivation to serve the Family and to be a role model as they struggle daily with life in Haiti. As leaders, they strive to continue the warm, caring, Christian environment that they were raised in. I love being with them and I constantly marvel at the men they have become. As for St. Joseph's kids, there is nothing more rewarding than sitting around talking, singing, experiencing morning prayers, bravos in the afternoon, listening to their laughter, and listening to their stories. Michael Geilenfeld has done an extraordinary job providing a home where kids feel loved and are treated with respect and kindness. I love St. Joseph's Home for Boys. They are family and I am called to serve them.
08.21.11 k.c. - trinity boys' story;
I have been spending a lot of time in Jacmel to prepare for the opening of the coming school year, but this past weekend I wanted to take some time just to be with the Jacmel boys at Trinity House. They are family and I love them as such, and I promised I would spend time with them and value being together. So I have taken them on two picnic excursions to the cliff-side right after the beach near Trinity House. On one occasion one boy was terribly menacing to another. I found it disturbing that such brothers would be at odds without explanation, so the next day I stole a chance to take brother #1 on a walk to ask him why he was full of such hate for the other brother. He did not answer, but clearly my intent had taken its effect. Later that evening I was invited to an orchestral concert in the center of Jacmel. Several boys wanted to attend. I watched as two of our boys affectionately whispered to each other during the concert, smiling at secrets shared between both of them about what instruments they like, girls, and such. It only occurred to me as I went to bed that these were the very two boys that were at odds with each other. (They must have been destined to go to the concert because I did not choose them for that purpose.) That’s what Trinity is about—reconciling wounds that create strife in young boys that otherwise would have no opportunity to show how much they can love. It was an honor to be able to witness just a little snippet of why the St. Joseph Family exists.
08.21.11 michael g. - an LST update;
We were to begin the LST school year on September 12, 2011. This is a bit earlier than we expected. The Minister of National Schools released the school opening date, and it was earlier than we anticipated, so we pushed the opening date by a week. All schools, not only ours were scrambling to prepare for the new school year…unsuccessfully really. But just this weekend the President himself pushed school opening to the beginning of October because he has yet to appoint a Prime Minister. Currently, we have 127 students enrolled. 43 girls, 43 boys in the morning. The afternoon program has 41 girls, exclusively. Plus we have two special needs students from the house, Reginald and Nikola. We also are looking to invite two to four special needs girls from the PAZAPA special needs school to participate in our school. The class grades are as follows: Morning- Montessori kindergarten, 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th grades. Afternoon- Montessori kindergarten, 1st, 2nd, 3rd. The computer lab and library are up and running. We will continue in the very successful and dearly loved girls afternoon cooking class. We also will continue in the successful boundaries program on intimacy and relationships. We’ll have a special student dance troupe. And I hope to open a science corner-just an area set aside with a couple of tables and donated science equipment.
08.21.11 michael g. - an amazing statistic;
SJF EMPLOYS 82 PEOPLE (St. Joseph's, Wings of Hope, Trinity House, LST). That does not include construction workers or people such as carpenters, electricians and plumbers who are often doing repairs for us. Of those 82 employees 30 are SJF graduates.
Our resident entrepreneur Walnes has started a jewelry making business at SJ Home for Boys - he currently employs 14 people from the neighborhood. Those 14 are also not included in the 82 listed below.
08.21.11 michael g. - success stories;
Last Saturday I was invited to the Baptism of the twin daughters of Marc Louis, a graduate of St. Joseph's and a founding member of our St. Joseph Family. When I walked into Marc's home it was brightly decorated with balloons and streamers. A center table was heaped with a feast of cakes, candies, champagne, rice and beans, potato/beat salad, fried plantains, fried goat, fried chicken and a lettuce/tomato salad. When I walked into the party Marc enthusiastically announced, " Grandpa is here!" He took me to see his daughters and their mother. Marc proudly introduced me to all the other guests. Then he went back to taking photos. Marc took a break from his photography to present me with a slide show of the photos he had already taken. At the baptism party I celebrated not only the baptism of Marc's twin daughters, I also celebrated witnessing a St. Joseph success story. Most of the children who come to live at St. Joseph's were living on the city streets or in child slavery because of an abusive or an absent father. I have always measured the success of St. Joseph's in the quality parent that is raised up here. I tell the children at St. Joseph's that for me a success is when they remain present in the life of a child they bring into this world. I don't see success in how much money an SJF graduate makes or how much education they have. I see success in how their lives are making a positive difference, especially in the lives of their own children. Not only is Marc Louis a terrific father, he is also doing a tremendous amount of good in Haiti working in the St. Marc area with victims of cholera. Marc often stops by St. Joseph's and if we have guests he engages them in conversation and always tells them how St. Joseph's has given him a new and more meaningful life. Being at the baptism party caused me to begin making a list of the SJ graduates I know who are now Dad's that are present and loving in the lives of their children. Please allow me to share that list of SJ successes with you: Marc Louis, Maya, Melchi, Jacky, Julner, Choupy, Lafrance, TiToto, Jn Ristil, Daniel Jn Mary, Dieudonne, Amos, Noli, Benoit, Celebien, Kepal, Lafalio, Francique... Those are just the ones that quickly come to mind. God knows there are many, many more. Here is a list of SJ graduates that are working for our SJ Family and helping us make a difference:
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Melchi - Director of Trinity House
Francique - Director of our coffee project
John Richard - cooks at Trinity
Louinel - cooks at LST
Fanel - a helper to Melchi
Josue - helps with cooking at Trinity and LST
Passien - cooks helper at Trinity and LST
Mackendy - art teacher at Trinity
Daniel Jean Mary -Mgr Nouvo Vi Bakery, LST computer lab
Jacky - Director of Wings of Hope
Jacob - art and craft director and care giver at Wings
Alcindor - head of kitchen at Wings
Gephte - care giver at Wings
Sony - care giver and educator at Wings
Vivianne - care giver and beautician at Wings
Julmist - in charge of keeping Wings clean
Jonas - care giver at Wings
Rony - helps with physical therapy at Wings
Lafrance - care giver and helps with cleaning at Wings
Jn Ristil - education ( both academic and spiritual) at Wings
Jn Roden - care giver/ physical therapy at Wings
Jn Baptist - care giver/ educator at Wings
TiToto - care giver/ helps with cleaning at Wings
Choupy - occupational therapy at Wings
Bill - Director of St. Joseph's
Walnes - Asst Dir. at SJ. Co-Director of art center at SJ
Andre - gardener at SJ ---Co-Director of Wings home Jacmel
Maya - Dir. Advancement for SJ Family and PR person
Benoit - Bookkeeper, gen. asst. for all family legal needs
Benoit - personal assistant to Michael
Francique - SJ graduate, started our school for poorest children
Maya - SJ graduate, started outreach for slave children Jacmel
Dadi - the amazing cook at St Joseph Home for Boys
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It is 2:00 AM as I make this list so I'm missing some, but the point being made is that we have a lot to celebrate in the quality, compassion and dedication of our SJ Family graduates. Haiti and the world at large is a better place because of these fine SJF men and woman ( Vivianne)
08.21.11 michael g. - Greetings from St. Joseph's!
Positive energy abounds at St. Joseph's as we watch the fifth floor of our new home getting framed. The carpenters and rebar crew work together choreographing some impressive construction. Hammers hitting nails provide the drum beat. A saw and an electric drill bring in the rhythm and blues. The cement mixer spins in a dizzy dance bowing to a parade of wheelbarrows. The staccato of the rocks in the cement connecting with the buckets help pick up the tempo. Like well rehearsed and supple dancers, a line of muscle toned men manage a pirouette with ease, elevating buckets of cement to pulley hooks. Hands on high pull the bright yellow rope as a construction worker takes on the appearance of a merry monk tolling the bell for Matins. What a spectacular show! As I stand in the gallery of the St. Joseph art center and look out upon the construction stage I feel like I have a box seat at an uplifting Broadway musical. The stone retaining wall is completed. The kitchen windows are being framed. More scaffolding is going up in anticipation of the sixth and final floor. What progress! Our new St. Joseph's Home is on the rise! However, construction of a building is just a small part of what we are doing. Our main focus is building better lives for the children and youth of Haiti that we are family for. One of our character building and soul strengthening methods is a daily circle of affirmation. It is a time when we gather as a family in our chapel and tell one another how much we value each other. We lift one another up by acknowledging the good we see in each other and enthusiastically giving one another verbal and dextrose bravos. Following that constructive model of "bravos" we have initiated a way to augment our circle of affirmation. If you go to: sjfstories.org you can read bravos that are lifting us up and empowering us with encouragement. Hopefully it will inspire you to join our family circle of affirmation and add your own written bravo. I go to sjfstories.org twice a day to get an energizing dose of positives. Seeing how others are finding the positives at St. Joseph's helps me see God at work here more clearly. It motivates me to keep doing my best and to aim even higher. A few lines shared at sjfstories.org is a great way to help build us up as family. Hopefully the next time I check in at sjfstories.org there will be a positive bravo building block from each of you. Please write and let us know how our St. Joseph Family is measuring up in the symphony of life. Email your bravo notes to : stories@sjfamilyhaiti.org ------ Michael and everyone at St. Joseph's, Wings of Hope and Trinity House
08.19.11 michael g. - a story;
There once was a man who had nothing for his family to eat. He had an old rifle and three bullets… so, he decided that he would go out hunting and kill some wild game for dinner. As he went down the road, he saw a rabbit. He shot at the rabbit and missed it. The rabbit ran away. Then he saw a squirrel and fired a shot at the squirrel and missed it. The squirrel disappeared into a hole in a cottonwood tree. As he went further, he saw a large wild 'Tom' turkey in the tree, but he had only one bullet remaining. A voice spoke to him and said, 'Pray first, aim high and stay focused. However, at the same time, he saw a deer, which was a better kill. He brought the gun down and aimed at the deer. But, then he saw a rattlesnake between his legs about to bite him, so he naturally brought the gun down further to shoot the rattlesnake. Still, the voice said again to him, 'I said 'Pray, Aim high and Stay focused. So, the man decided to listen to God's voice. He prayed, then aimed the gun high up in the tree and shot the wild turkey. The bullet bounced off the turkey and killed the deer. The handle fell off the gun and hit the snake in the head and killed it. And, when the gun had gone off, it knocked him into a pond. When he stood up to look around, he had fish in all his pockets, a dead deer and a turkey to eat for his family. The snake (Satan) was dead simply because the man listened to God. MORAL - Pray first before you do anything, aim and shoot high in your goals, and stay focused on God. Never let others discourage you. Live every day one day at a time and remember that only God knows our future and that he will not put you through any more than you can bear. Do not look to man for your blessings, but look to the doors that only He has prepared in advance for you in your favor. Wait, be still and patient: keep God first and everything else will follow. FROM ONE FRIEND TO ANOTHER… Don't worry about tomorrow, God is already there!!!
08.19.11 leslie w. - reflections;
It was with great joy that we returned to St Joseph's Home (my 4th stay). It is my home in Haiti; not only a clean, safe place to stay but a place where so many of our friends live and work. It is a place filled with God's love and presence. The meals we shared were the best food I have ever enjoyed in Haiti. Truly a place to nourish and strengthen body and soul; an oasis. Many thanks to Michael and the boys for sharing their home and for their advice, company and assistance during our stay. I treasure our friendship and, as always, will look forward to my next visit to Haiti. Best wishes for the rebuilding and renovation projects. May God bless and keep you all. With love.
08.18.11 geoffrey h. - my story;
"As a dedicated employee of Hearts with Haiti that works full time to rally support around this cause, I am confident that this mission is unique and wonderful in the passion it shows for providing extraordinary care and a family life for the young people that call SJF facilities home. This statement is bolstered by my experience working with and closely studying the work of other international development nonprofits. What I know to be a central challenge in this sector is that in many instances, donors' best intentions for providing the resources necessary for health, education, disaster relief, or poverty eradication, are translated into big blank cheques from international ngo's that may result in impressive statistics, but don't actually help bring love, care, and family to those most in need. That is what is so impressive about the St. Joseph Family-- a mission that Hearts with Haiti has devoted ten years to fundraising around. Every day at St. Joseph Family facilities, the extraordinary is commonplace--children that were held as slaves by their own countrymen and women, are provided with overwhelming love, education, sustenence, friendship, and faith-- children and young adults with mental and physical challenges regarded by many in Haiti to suffer from possession by evil spirits, receive world-class care and are treated with the same dignity afforded to all unique and wonderful human beings-- young boys become powerful men, charged with leadership of this mission and primed with the skills and drive necessary to bring about a more equitable and sustainable future for Haiti. I have witnessed the power of this mission to ignite passion from crowds of supporters and to change the minds of skeptics. I invite all to come and see why supporting the St. Joseph Family is an investment in bringing about a positive future for Haiti, one young person at a time."
08.17.11 michael g. - update;
This afternoon Bill, Walnes and I went to meet with the architects because we did not understand about the stairs that will lead to each of the floors of the new SJ building. We now know where the stairs will be located, that they will be standard width, that they will be metal, that the stairs will be on the outside of the building and covered. We also commented that the construction seems to be going at a snails pace lately. Then we let them know we are planning to have the dedication of the new building on the 28th of January. It turns out that is the birthday of Lionel Allen the main architect. Lionel said they would pick up the pace and he was confident that the building would be completed in time for our dedication date.
08.17.11 amy v. - hello!
I have been going to Haiti since 1999 and my family is St. Joseph
Family! I have watched so many children grow up in this open and very nurturing environment and have been inspired over and over again by the determination of this family. The children come off the streets and are welcomed into a home, not an orphanage. They grow up being part of a family that prays together twice a day, everyday. They are surrounded by creativity; dance, painting, music and problem solving! I love my family in Haiti and have welcomed them into my home in the US for visits many times. I do not know what my life would be like without the encouragement and support I get from my family from Haiti!
08.17.11 rob p. - Hi everybody,
I talked with Michael today and here is what is going on this week at St. Joseph's. They are updating the kitchen in the guest house with new appliances and cabinets. They are painting the interior of the guest house with bright caribbean colors. Construction is slightly behind schedule but they have completed the retaining wall and they are now working on the 5th floor. Walnes finished his 3000 piece order and is now working on a 400 piece jewelry order. The boys chosen to live at St. Joseph's this year will return from Trinity House on August 24th, and school starts Sept. 5th. I talked with Bill yesterday and he is happy to be home! Peace in Christ
08.16.11 k.c. - re: montessori schools;
don't know if you got the last one i sent concerning cotting. so here is the montessori write up and the cotting one again. I did not grow up learning in the Montessori Method, but I had a friend who had a little sister who did. Because of her situation, I had always pictured the Montessori schools as an upper class type of situation. So, when the opportunity arose to partner with a donor, who had introduced us to an organization setting up Montessori kindergartens in Haiti, I was a bit hesitant. Still the lady insisted we visit a Montessori school, set up to reach the poorer community. I was so impressed immediately upon visiting that right then and there I knew that Montessori would be good for our community school in Jacmel. The classroom where we visited was quiet and orderly. Every child has some sort of didactical material in his or her hand. The children were engaged and doing reading and writing far above the normal level for their peer groups. There were no fighting and bickering amongst the students . Each child patiently waited his or her turn for an activity they wished to pursue. During that trip I envisioned this happening at Lekol Sen Trinite. My hope was that the program would be a catalyst for learning of the children we serve, so abased and with hardly a family support concerning education. The program would help boost critical thinking, individualized teaching, and behavioral support at an early age, and be a foundation for the rest of the educational system at our school. The Peter Hesse Foundation, the organization working in Haiti to build Montessori kindergartens, began partnering with us for a term of two years. They agreed to send a teacher trainer to our school to teach a training workshop, which would produce certified Montessori teachers in Jacmel. Meanwhile, they would provide base line Montessori materials and furniture for the classroom. The teacher trainer would teach the kindergarten and use the class as an on-site practicum for the trainees. At the end of the two year contract, we would have our own Montessori teacher and the materials already in place. It took the two years to ease in the program. Besides the earthquake and several hurricanes that rocked Jacmel and made the program difficult to run, it was also Jacmel’s first introduction to the Montessori Method. The school is surrounded by an extremely poor community. These are the families we reach out to, and it took a bit to acclimate to a new way of teaching. After much perseverance, we have a running Montessori kindergarten. It has made a marvelous impact on the way we teach. It has also improved learning and grades in the primary classes drastically. The students initially part of the program are now heading into second grade and are thriving. Their understanding and capacity to learn is exponentially better compared to the students in our school who have not had a chance to be part of the Montessori system. One who walks into the classroom will see our little ones contemplating various weights, using buttoning, tying, and snapping frames, learning to pour, or even learning about different bodies of water in the sea. We are blessed to have had this opportunity presented to us. As of now, we are looking to find Montessori school s across the globe who would like to partner with us. We still need mentors to keep our program strong, as it is only in its infancy.
08.15.11 john c. - michael;
Hi! My name is John C., and I have been coordinating a group called Third World Awareness since 1989. We bring people from Toronto to work in the Developing World for a couple of weeks every May. In 2003 we came to Haiti for the first time we have been coming every year since then. Probably 150 to 160 people have come with us during that time. Those of us who return each year consider St. Joseph Home our home in Haiti. We have enjoyed the place so much from the cold glass of water upon our arrival to the final delicious breakfast before our departure. We have been treated royally. Michael Geilenfeld runs a very well organized home. We have enjoyed the boys immensely - their charm, energy and the richness of their presence. Even their 5:00am prayers and hymns become a wonderful beginning to the rhythm of our days. Over the years every group that we bring have been amazed by the quality of the Dance Company. The focus, the discipline and the energy always fill us with hope and joy. Each year we spend an overnight at Trinity House in Jacmel. Again we are so warmly received with a song, a beautiful meal and a dance performance. We return to Port Au Prince to carry on our work in a very positive frame of mind. Usually some of our people work at Wings of Hope. We actually helped to mix cement in 2003 for expansion at the time. Our volunteers have loved the experience and some have spent a number of nights there. St Joseph"s Home and Michael Geilenfeld have enriched our lives over the years beyond measure. As I think of all of our volunteers over the years who have experienced this hospitality I must say that we have been truly blessed.
08.15.11 peter e. - greetings,
I have to tell you about my trip with Fransique to visit the coffee growers up in the hills above Jacmel. Fransique wanted us to ride on motorbikes-- but since none of the four of us going on the trip had ever ridden a motorbike, we opted to rent a little Toyota truck. Three rode in the back with Fransique and a friend while I rode in the front. Afterwards, my three traveling companions confided that they actually thought they were going to die! The so called "road" up to the mountain was more like a bumpy-- that little word just doesn't do justice to the wide cavernous holes that greeted us every step of the way. Being bounced and jerked around in the back my friends had to hold on for fear that they would be tossed out on the road All of a sudden there was this horrendous bang! And the truck came to a sudden halt. We had blown a tire and the spare in the back of the truck was obviously very flat. Here we were miles up the mountainside and now it appeared as if we would have to walk our way back when all of a sudden a little motorbike zoomed around the corner. Haitian spontaneous greetings were exchanged and the motorbike driver pulled from his possessions a hand pump! A good Samaritan is never far away in Haiti! Salvation was ours!. We continued up the mountain and finally made it to the calm and peaceful home of one of the coffee growers. We were greeted enthusiastically and chairs were brought out from the tiny -- maybe 10ft by 10ft. house and we were encouraged to take a seat.under some flowering trees by the side of the house. Okay, I asked Where are the coffee plants? I could tell by their amused expressions that I was offering them some humour! You're sitting under it, Fransique explained. Abundant laughter form the farmer and his sons erupted! Meanwhile, the lady of the house had made great preparations to serve us coffee. In her bare feet she came out carrying a trayful of the most beautiful china cups I had ever seen. she was so honoured to have us visit that she wanted to show us her gratitude in the most fitting way she possibly could. I couldn't refuse a cup of her fine brew--- for which, later, my innards most heartily disapproved! I came away humbled by these strong resilient farmers who are trying to eke out a living from the land far away from the problems of the city. Bravo for Fransique for trying to provide a living for these farmers so that they can continue enjoying their traditional way of life.
08.11.11 peter e. - greetings,
It might seem kind of strange that a boy's home-- Trinity House-- is getting involved in a coffee roasting business... but when you consider all of the positives that this will bring to Haiti it makes perfect sense. Haiti has virtually been stripped of its forest which has lead to all sorts of environmental issues.. climatic change, erosion, depletion of the fertility of the soil to name a few. But coffee-- or the cultivation of the coffee plant requires shade. Can getting the country farmers involved in the coffee trade result in an economically motivated reforestation project! I certainly hope so. The bottom line is to pay these farmers a fair trade price for their produce. If a farmer came make more growing coffee -- then why would he slash down the forest to raise cabbage? I want to tell you more about my trip up to the hills to visit the farmers who are growing the coffee beans for the coffee business at Trinity House-- but that will have to wait for another day!
08.10.11 lucy d. - my story;
I have been a part of St. Joseph's family from the beginning. I made my first trip to Haiti in 1985 with a medical mission. Just before myself and friend left for Haiti. Michael's mother gave us his address. He had just returned to Haiti to establish a home for the first five boys he had previously worked with when he was a Brother of Charity. We got into a taxi, gave the driver the address, we did not speak creole and the driver didn't speak English. What a leap of faith. We arrived at Michael's house behind the cardboard factory a little later. We visited with Michael and the boys in that very small two room house. They were sleeping on straw mats on the floor and had no furniture. They did have cooking utensils for a charcoal fire. As we were leaving one of the boys said he would like some glasses so he could see better. My friend Maury took off her glasses and gave them to him. He now teaches at Wings of Hope.
08.09.11 hannalore - dear michael,
it is just the most beautiful experience to read all the mails.
Please mention your Montessori program in Jacmel. All the best!
08.09.11 peter e. - greetings,
Whenever I come back from Haiti, there is always someone who asks me: "Why Haiti?" Granted, it isn't the cleanest place in the world. There isn't much to see in the way of sightseeing. It is hot, dusty and polluted. The airport is in shambles-- but I keep going simply because a certain family in Haiti.... the St. Joseph's Family-- considers me to be part of their family. The welcome one receives as soon as you enter the gates of the home is so sincere that one can not help but be caught up in the good spirit that fills the home. Every child meets you with a warm genuine smile. they are so happy that you have come to visit. So my question to anyone who might listen: "Go to Haiti! Experience for yourself the life changing experience offered by St. Joe's. I came back from Haiti a changed person and you will too!
08.08.11 peter e. - Renee;
THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME KNOW THAT YOU THINK YOU HAVE MANAGED TO STOP THE LATEST SICKNESS TO COME TO WINGS OF HOPE. IT IS ALWAYS SAD WHEN WE LOSE CHILDREN-- BUT I KNOW THAT YOU AND THE STAFF AT WINGS OF HOPE HAVE DONE EVERYTHING THEY POSSIBLY CAN TO PREVENT THE DISEASE FROM AFFECTING EVEN MORE OF OUR CHILDREN.
08.08.11 peter e. - Hello Michael,
It has so great watching the new home come up from the rubble. Such solid construction! The quantity of rebar, the steel girders between each floor showed me that when and if another comes to Haiti, our family will be protected.
08.08.11 peter e. - DEAR FRIENDS,
IT WAS SO GREAT BEING PART OF THE MEETING IN RALEIGH. ESPECIALLY HEARING EACH OF OUR LEADERS TELLING THE STORY OF HOW THEY CAME FROM THE STREETS TO BE RESCUED BY THE ST. JOSEPH'S FAMILY. THESE WERE ALL SUCH POWERFUL STORIES OF AFFIRMATION-- AND TO HEAR THEM EACH SAY HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO GIVE BACK TO THE CHILDREN OF HAITI!! POWERFUL!
08.08.11 peter e. - My great friends at St. joseph Family,
It was great to be part of your family once again this summer. Although the hot weather is something I am not used to-- being from cool Canada-- I always so much appreciate the warm welcome that I receive from every one associated with our family. You are doing great work-- lifting the children out of their despair and offering them a positive future. Thank you for all that you do for the children of Haiti.
I first traveled to beautiful Haiti in 2000. I've made many trips
since then, because I desire the inspiration and humility I receive
from witnessing the dignity and perseverance of Haitian people who live under very challenging circumstances. I ask myself, “Where do they get their strength?” The best answer I can come up with is that strength comes from prayer. Travelers who stay at St. Joseph Family homes quickly learn that prayer is the heart of the St. Joseph Family. Bells ring every morning before dawn and children tumble out of bed, to join a prayer circle for conversation with God. Bells ring again just before nightfall and children return to the prayer circle, to give thanks to God for the day and to voice their thanks to each other for kindnesses received throughout the day. This pattern instructs my life. I am grateful. Is there anything people do that is more important than prayer? I don’t think so. Join me in prayer for the well-being of the St. Joseph Family and for all brothers and sisters in Haiti.
08.22.11 sally c. - christmas journal;
[Extracts from a December 2003 letter from Sally Cole to family and friends.] "Christmas really sneaked up on me this year". I don't often have access to a TV (and don't see all the ads) and ordinary Haitians can't afford to buy presents for their loved ones, so the holiday is viewed as Jesus' birthday party and is celebrated by attending church services, spending as much time as possible with family and friends and perhaps having a special meal on Christmas Eve. The St. Joseph's Family celebrations begin at Wings of Hope on the 23rd with a presentation by the kids of the Birth of Jesus story. Mary is portrayed by a beautiful 17-year-old deaf woman who is crippled but manages to look very pregnant and mystical with a pillow stuffed under her clothes. Last year was special because we had a real baby instead of a stuffed doll in the manger. Someone had abandoned at St. Joseph's door a couple of weeks before Christmas a little baby who was later diagnosed as disabled and moved to Wings. Given the timing and the lack of information about the child, he was called Baby Jesus, nicknamed BJ, and BJ had a starring role in last year's play. I expect that he will again this year. After the events on the 23rd, the next big deal is at St. Joseph's on Christmas Eve -- another re-enactment of the manger story with a different cast of characters, a couple of new dances performed by the dance troupe, then a feast of stuffed pastries and desserts, and a brew we call Pastor's Punch that is wicked and indeed delivers a punch if you don't watch out, and lots of music and dancing. Everyone sleeps in Christmas morning, the boys have whatever they want for meals all day long, and watch as much TV was they want. (So this doesn't sound too decadent, I should add that many of them elect to visit slum families in Cite Soleil that they have "adopted" and bring food, gifts, money, etc.) The "blancs" (foreigners) have a fun gift exchange Christmas morning in the kitchen after the boys have had breakfast. MICHAEL: This is the extent of my journal entry for pre-Christmas 2003. It brought back lots of happy memories. Enjoy!
08.21.11 rob p. - my story;
Three and a half years ago, I visited St. Joseph's almost on a whim with Sally Bates, Chaplain of Duke Divinity School. That trip changed everything in my life. This was a retreat in the "Spirituality of Mother Teresa" and Michael spoke of making yourself empty, open, and aware so that you can be receptive to Holy Spirit. He taught us to experience "Christ through relationship". I took this experience home and somehow it changed the way that I look at everything. I look at everything through the "lens" of Christianity and I eagerly try to experience Christ through friendships and those that I interact with. Since that visit, I have returned to St. Joseph's nine times. Michael's ministry is by far the most amazing and uplifting mission I have ever experienced. He gives kids with no future, the opportunity to excel and to become incredible leaders, by raising them in a warm, loving, Christian environment. I wanted others to experience this incredible place, so I started leading my own retreats in the "Spirituality of Mother Teresa", exposing as many people as possible to this ministry. What I enjoy the most about St. Joseph's is my relationship with the leadership and the kids. Bill Nathan, my prayer partner, has the most integrity of anyone I have ever met. His life story is inspiring and and he lives his faith with intention. Walnes is a joy to be around, and I see Christ in his smile and his good nature. Having spent a lot of time with Walnes and his friends, I have come to realize that he accepts people for who they are and he looks for the good in everyone. He often reaches out to those who are less fortunate and shares. He shares his time, his material things, and his positive outlook with friends, family members, and guests alike. The other leaders, Jacky, Maya, and Melshi, are a testimony to what it means to have grown up in the St. Joseph Family. I am constantly amazed by their drive and motivation to serve the Family and to be a role model as they struggle daily with life in Haiti. As leaders, they strive to continue the warm, caring, Christian environment that they were raised in. I love being with them and I constantly marvel at the men they have become. As for St. Joseph's kids, there is nothing more rewarding than sitting around talking, singing, experiencing morning prayers, bravos in the afternoon, listening to their laughter, and listening to their stories. Michael Geilenfeld has done an extraordinary job providing a home where kids feel loved and are treated with respect and kindness. I love St. Joseph's Home for Boys. They are family and I am called to serve them.
08.21.11 k.c. - trinity boys' story;
I have been spending a lot of time in Jacmel to prepare for the opening of the coming school year, but this past weekend I wanted to take some time just to be with the Jacmel boys at Trinity House. They are family and I love them as such, and I promised I would spend time with them and value being together. So I have taken them on two picnic excursions to the cliff-side right after the beach near Trinity House. On one occasion one boy was terribly menacing to another. I found it disturbing that such brothers would be at odds without explanation, so the next day I stole a chance to take brother #1 on a walk to ask him why he was full of such hate for the other brother. He did not answer, but clearly my intent had taken its effect. Later that evening I was invited to an orchestral concert in the center of Jacmel. Several boys wanted to attend. I watched as two of our boys affectionately whispered to each other during the concert, smiling at secrets shared between both of them about what instruments they like, girls, and such. It only occurred to me as I went to bed that these were the very two boys that were at odds with each other. (They must have been destined to go to the concert because I did not choose them for that purpose.) That’s what Trinity is about—reconciling wounds that create strife in young boys that otherwise would have no opportunity to show how much they can love. It was an honor to be able to witness just a little snippet of why the St. Joseph Family exists.
08.21.11 michael g. - an LST update;
We were to begin the LST school year on September 12, 2011. This is a bit earlier than we expected. The Minister of National Schools released the school opening date, and it was earlier than we anticipated, so we pushed the opening date by a week. All schools, not only ours were scrambling to prepare for the new school year…unsuccessfully really. But just this weekend the President himself pushed school opening to the beginning of October because he has yet to appoint a Prime Minister. Currently, we have 127 students enrolled. 43 girls, 43 boys in the morning. The afternoon program has 41 girls, exclusively. Plus we have two special needs students from the house, Reginald and Nikola. We also are looking to invite two to four special needs girls from the PAZAPA special needs school to participate in our school. The class grades are as follows: Morning- Montessori kindergarten, 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th grades. Afternoon- Montessori kindergarten, 1st, 2nd, 3rd. The computer lab and library are up and running. We will continue in the very successful and dearly loved girls afternoon cooking class. We also will continue in the successful boundaries program on intimacy and relationships. We’ll have a special student dance troupe. And I hope to open a science corner-just an area set aside with a couple of tables and donated science equipment.
08.21.11 michael g. - an amazing statistic;
SJF EMPLOYS 82 PEOPLE (St. Joseph's, Wings of Hope, Trinity House, LST). That does not include construction workers or people such as carpenters, electricians and plumbers who are often doing repairs for us. Of those 82 employees 30 are SJF graduates.
Our resident entrepreneur Walnes has started a jewelry making business at SJ Home for Boys - he currently employs 14 people from the neighborhood. Those 14 are also not included in the 82 listed below.
08.21.11 michael g. - success stories;
Last Saturday I was invited to the Baptism of the twin daughters of Marc Louis, a graduate of St. Joseph's and a founding member of our St. Joseph Family. When I walked into Marc's home it was brightly decorated with balloons and streamers. A center table was heaped with a feast of cakes, candies, champagne, rice and beans, potato/beat salad, fried plantains, fried goat, fried chicken and a lettuce/tomato salad. When I walked into the party Marc enthusiastically announced, " Grandpa is here!" He took me to see his daughters and their mother. Marc proudly introduced me to all the other guests. Then he went back to taking photos. Marc took a break from his photography to present me with a slide show of the photos he had already taken. At the baptism party I celebrated not only the baptism of Marc's twin daughters, I also celebrated witnessing a St. Joseph success story. Most of the children who come to live at St. Joseph's were living on the city streets or in child slavery because of an abusive or an absent father. I have always measured the success of St. Joseph's in the quality parent that is raised up here. I tell the children at St. Joseph's that for me a success is when they remain present in the life of a child they bring into this world. I don't see success in how much money an SJF graduate makes or how much education they have. I see success in how their lives are making a positive difference, especially in the lives of their own children. Not only is Marc Louis a terrific father, he is also doing a tremendous amount of good in Haiti working in the St. Marc area with victims of cholera. Marc often stops by St. Joseph's and if we have guests he engages them in conversation and always tells them how St. Joseph's has given him a new and more meaningful life. Being at the baptism party caused me to begin making a list of the SJ graduates I know who are now Dad's that are present and loving in the lives of their children. Please allow me to share that list of SJ successes with you: Marc Louis, Maya, Melchi, Jacky, Julner, Choupy, Lafrance, TiToto, Jn Ristil, Daniel Jn Mary, Dieudonne, Amos, Noli, Benoit, Celebien, Kepal, Lafalio, Francique... Those are just the ones that quickly come to mind. God knows there are many, many more. Here is a list of SJ graduates that are working for our SJ Family and helping us make a difference:
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Melchi - Director of Trinity House
Francique - Director of our coffee project
John Richard - cooks at Trinity
Louinel - cooks at LST
Fanel - a helper to Melchi
Josue - helps with cooking at Trinity and LST
Passien - cooks helper at Trinity and LST
Mackendy - art teacher at Trinity
Daniel Jean Mary -Mgr Nouvo Vi Bakery, LST computer lab
Jacky - Director of Wings of Hope
Jacob - art and craft director and care giver at Wings
Alcindor - head of kitchen at Wings
Gephte - care giver at Wings
Sony - care giver and educator at Wings
Vivianne - care giver and beautician at Wings
Julmist - in charge of keeping Wings clean
Jonas - care giver at Wings
Rony - helps with physical therapy at Wings
Lafrance - care giver and helps with cleaning at Wings
Jn Ristil - education ( both academic and spiritual) at Wings
Jn Roden - care giver/ physical therapy at Wings
Jn Baptist - care giver/ educator at Wings
TiToto - care giver/ helps with cleaning at Wings
Choupy - occupational therapy at Wings
Bill - Director of St. Joseph's
Walnes - Asst Dir. at SJ. Co-Director of art center at SJ
Andre - gardener at SJ ---Co-Director of Wings home Jacmel
Maya - Dir. Advancement for SJ Family and PR person
Benoit - Bookkeeper, gen. asst. for all family legal needs
Benoit - personal assistant to Michael
Francique - SJ graduate, started our school for poorest children
Maya - SJ graduate, started outreach for slave children Jacmel
Dadi - the amazing cook at St Joseph Home for Boys
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It is 2:00 AM as I make this list so I'm missing some, but the point being made is that we have a lot to celebrate in the quality, compassion and dedication of our SJ Family graduates. Haiti and the world at large is a better place because of these fine SJF men and woman ( Vivianne)
08.21.11 michael g. - Greetings from St. Joseph's!
Positive energy abounds at St. Joseph's as we watch the fifth floor of our new home getting framed. The carpenters and rebar crew work together choreographing some impressive construction. Hammers hitting nails provide the drum beat. A saw and an electric drill bring in the rhythm and blues. The cement mixer spins in a dizzy dance bowing to a parade of wheelbarrows. The staccato of the rocks in the cement connecting with the buckets help pick up the tempo. Like well rehearsed and supple dancers, a line of muscle toned men manage a pirouette with ease, elevating buckets of cement to pulley hooks. Hands on high pull the bright yellow rope as a construction worker takes on the appearance of a merry monk tolling the bell for Matins. What a spectacular show! As I stand in the gallery of the St. Joseph art center and look out upon the construction stage I feel like I have a box seat at an uplifting Broadway musical. The stone retaining wall is completed. The kitchen windows are being framed. More scaffolding is going up in anticipation of the sixth and final floor. What progress! Our new St. Joseph's Home is on the rise! However, construction of a building is just a small part of what we are doing. Our main focus is building better lives for the children and youth of Haiti that we are family for. One of our character building and soul strengthening methods is a daily circle of affirmation. It is a time when we gather as a family in our chapel and tell one another how much we value each other. We lift one another up by acknowledging the good we see in each other and enthusiastically giving one another verbal and dextrose bravos. Following that constructive model of "bravos" we have initiated a way to augment our circle of affirmation. If you go to: sjfstories.org you can read bravos that are lifting us up and empowering us with encouragement. Hopefully it will inspire you to join our family circle of affirmation and add your own written bravo. I go to sjfstories.org twice a day to get an energizing dose of positives. Seeing how others are finding the positives at St. Joseph's helps me see God at work here more clearly. It motivates me to keep doing my best and to aim even higher. A few lines shared at sjfstories.org is a great way to help build us up as family. Hopefully the next time I check in at sjfstories.org there will be a positive bravo building block from each of you. Please write and let us know how our St. Joseph Family is measuring up in the symphony of life. Email your bravo notes to : stories@sjfamilyhaiti.org ------ Michael and everyone at St. Joseph's, Wings of Hope and Trinity House
08.19.11 michael g. - a story;
There once was a man who had nothing for his family to eat. He had an old rifle and three bullets… so, he decided that he would go out hunting and kill some wild game for dinner. As he went down the road, he saw a rabbit. He shot at the rabbit and missed it. The rabbit ran away. Then he saw a squirrel and fired a shot at the squirrel and missed it. The squirrel disappeared into a hole in a cottonwood tree. As he went further, he saw a large wild 'Tom' turkey in the tree, but he had only one bullet remaining. A voice spoke to him and said, 'Pray first, aim high and stay focused. However, at the same time, he saw a deer, which was a better kill. He brought the gun down and aimed at the deer. But, then he saw a rattlesnake between his legs about to bite him, so he naturally brought the gun down further to shoot the rattlesnake. Still, the voice said again to him, 'I said 'Pray, Aim high and Stay focused. So, the man decided to listen to God's voice. He prayed, then aimed the gun high up in the tree and shot the wild turkey. The bullet bounced off the turkey and killed the deer. The handle fell off the gun and hit the snake in the head and killed it. And, when the gun had gone off, it knocked him into a pond. When he stood up to look around, he had fish in all his pockets, a dead deer and a turkey to eat for his family. The snake (Satan) was dead simply because the man listened to God. MORAL - Pray first before you do anything, aim and shoot high in your goals, and stay focused on God. Never let others discourage you. Live every day one day at a time and remember that only God knows our future and that he will not put you through any more than you can bear. Do not look to man for your blessings, but look to the doors that only He has prepared in advance for you in your favor. Wait, be still and patient: keep God first and everything else will follow. FROM ONE FRIEND TO ANOTHER… Don't worry about tomorrow, God is already there!!!
08.19.11 leslie w. - reflections;
It was with great joy that we returned to St Joseph's Home (my 4th stay). It is my home in Haiti; not only a clean, safe place to stay but a place where so many of our friends live and work. It is a place filled with God's love and presence. The meals we shared were the best food I have ever enjoyed in Haiti. Truly a place to nourish and strengthen body and soul; an oasis. Many thanks to Michael and the boys for sharing their home and for their advice, company and assistance during our stay. I treasure our friendship and, as always, will look forward to my next visit to Haiti. Best wishes for the rebuilding and renovation projects. May God bless and keep you all. With love.
08.18.11 geoffrey h. - my story;
"As a dedicated employee of Hearts with Haiti that works full time to rally support around this cause, I am confident that this mission is unique and wonderful in the passion it shows for providing extraordinary care and a family life for the young people that call SJF facilities home. This statement is bolstered by my experience working with and closely studying the work of other international development nonprofits. What I know to be a central challenge in this sector is that in many instances, donors' best intentions for providing the resources necessary for health, education, disaster relief, or poverty eradication, are translated into big blank cheques from international ngo's that may result in impressive statistics, but don't actually help bring love, care, and family to those most in need. That is what is so impressive about the St. Joseph Family-- a mission that Hearts with Haiti has devoted ten years to fundraising around. Every day at St. Joseph Family facilities, the extraordinary is commonplace--children that were held as slaves by their own countrymen and women, are provided with overwhelming love, education, sustenence, friendship, and faith-- children and young adults with mental and physical challenges regarded by many in Haiti to suffer from possession by evil spirits, receive world-class care and are treated with the same dignity afforded to all unique and wonderful human beings-- young boys become powerful men, charged with leadership of this mission and primed with the skills and drive necessary to bring about a more equitable and sustainable future for Haiti. I have witnessed the power of this mission to ignite passion from crowds of supporters and to change the minds of skeptics. I invite all to come and see why supporting the St. Joseph Family is an investment in bringing about a positive future for Haiti, one young person at a time."
08.17.11 michael g. - update;
This afternoon Bill, Walnes and I went to meet with the architects because we did not understand about the stairs that will lead to each of the floors of the new SJ building. We now know where the stairs will be located, that they will be standard width, that they will be metal, that the stairs will be on the outside of the building and covered. We also commented that the construction seems to be going at a snails pace lately. Then we let them know we are planning to have the dedication of the new building on the 28th of January. It turns out that is the birthday of Lionel Allen the main architect. Lionel said they would pick up the pace and he was confident that the building would be completed in time for our dedication date.
08.17.11 amy v. - hello!
I have been going to Haiti since 1999 and my family is St. Joseph
Family! I have watched so many children grow up in this open and very nurturing environment and have been inspired over and over again by the determination of this family. The children come off the streets and are welcomed into a home, not an orphanage. They grow up being part of a family that prays together twice a day, everyday. They are surrounded by creativity; dance, painting, music and problem solving! I love my family in Haiti and have welcomed them into my home in the US for visits many times. I do not know what my life would be like without the encouragement and support I get from my family from Haiti!
08.17.11 rob p. - Hi everybody,
I talked with Michael today and here is what is going on this week at St. Joseph's. They are updating the kitchen in the guest house with new appliances and cabinets. They are painting the interior of the guest house with bright caribbean colors. Construction is slightly behind schedule but they have completed the retaining wall and they are now working on the 5th floor. Walnes finished his 3000 piece order and is now working on a 400 piece jewelry order. The boys chosen to live at St. Joseph's this year will return from Trinity House on August 24th, and school starts Sept. 5th. I talked with Bill yesterday and he is happy to be home! Peace in Christ
08.16.11 k.c. - re: montessori schools;
don't know if you got the last one i sent concerning cotting. so here is the montessori write up and the cotting one again. I did not grow up learning in the Montessori Method, but I had a friend who had a little sister who did. Because of her situation, I had always pictured the Montessori schools as an upper class type of situation. So, when the opportunity arose to partner with a donor, who had introduced us to an organization setting up Montessori kindergartens in Haiti, I was a bit hesitant. Still the lady insisted we visit a Montessori school, set up to reach the poorer community. I was so impressed immediately upon visiting that right then and there I knew that Montessori would be good for our community school in Jacmel. The classroom where we visited was quiet and orderly. Every child has some sort of didactical material in his or her hand. The children were engaged and doing reading and writing far above the normal level for their peer groups. There were no fighting and bickering amongst the students . Each child patiently waited his or her turn for an activity they wished to pursue. During that trip I envisioned this happening at Lekol Sen Trinite. My hope was that the program would be a catalyst for learning of the children we serve, so abased and with hardly a family support concerning education. The program would help boost critical thinking, individualized teaching, and behavioral support at an early age, and be a foundation for the rest of the educational system at our school. The Peter Hesse Foundation, the organization working in Haiti to build Montessori kindergartens, began partnering with us for a term of two years. They agreed to send a teacher trainer to our school to teach a training workshop, which would produce certified Montessori teachers in Jacmel. Meanwhile, they would provide base line Montessori materials and furniture for the classroom. The teacher trainer would teach the kindergarten and use the class as an on-site practicum for the trainees. At the end of the two year contract, we would have our own Montessori teacher and the materials already in place. It took the two years to ease in the program. Besides the earthquake and several hurricanes that rocked Jacmel and made the program difficult to run, it was also Jacmel’s first introduction to the Montessori Method. The school is surrounded by an extremely poor community. These are the families we reach out to, and it took a bit to acclimate to a new way of teaching. After much perseverance, we have a running Montessori kindergarten. It has made a marvelous impact on the way we teach. It has also improved learning and grades in the primary classes drastically. The students initially part of the program are now heading into second grade and are thriving. Their understanding and capacity to learn is exponentially better compared to the students in our school who have not had a chance to be part of the Montessori system. One who walks into the classroom will see our little ones contemplating various weights, using buttoning, tying, and snapping frames, learning to pour, or even learning about different bodies of water in the sea. We are blessed to have had this opportunity presented to us. As of now, we are looking to find Montessori school s across the globe who would like to partner with us. We still need mentors to keep our program strong, as it is only in its infancy.
08.15.11 john c. - michael;
Hi! My name is John C., and I have been coordinating a group called Third World Awareness since 1989. We bring people from Toronto to work in the Developing World for a couple of weeks every May. In 2003 we came to Haiti for the first time we have been coming every year since then. Probably 150 to 160 people have come with us during that time. Those of us who return each year consider St. Joseph Home our home in Haiti. We have enjoyed the place so much from the cold glass of water upon our arrival to the final delicious breakfast before our departure. We have been treated royally. Michael Geilenfeld runs a very well organized home. We have enjoyed the boys immensely - their charm, energy and the richness of their presence. Even their 5:00am prayers and hymns become a wonderful beginning to the rhythm of our days. Over the years every group that we bring have been amazed by the quality of the Dance Company. The focus, the discipline and the energy always fill us with hope and joy. Each year we spend an overnight at Trinity House in Jacmel. Again we are so warmly received with a song, a beautiful meal and a dance performance. We return to Port Au Prince to carry on our work in a very positive frame of mind. Usually some of our people work at Wings of Hope. We actually helped to mix cement in 2003 for expansion at the time. Our volunteers have loved the experience and some have spent a number of nights there. St Joseph"s Home and Michael Geilenfeld have enriched our lives over the years beyond measure. As I think of all of our volunteers over the years who have experienced this hospitality I must say that we have been truly blessed.
08.15.11 peter e. - greetings,
I have to tell you about my trip with Fransique to visit the coffee growers up in the hills above Jacmel. Fransique wanted us to ride on motorbikes-- but since none of the four of us going on the trip had ever ridden a motorbike, we opted to rent a little Toyota truck. Three rode in the back with Fransique and a friend while I rode in the front. Afterwards, my three traveling companions confided that they actually thought they were going to die! The so called "road" up to the mountain was more like a bumpy-- that little word just doesn't do justice to the wide cavernous holes that greeted us every step of the way. Being bounced and jerked around in the back my friends had to hold on for fear that they would be tossed out on the road All of a sudden there was this horrendous bang! And the truck came to a sudden halt. We had blown a tire and the spare in the back of the truck was obviously very flat. Here we were miles up the mountainside and now it appeared as if we would have to walk our way back when all of a sudden a little motorbike zoomed around the corner. Haitian spontaneous greetings were exchanged and the motorbike driver pulled from his possessions a hand pump! A good Samaritan is never far away in Haiti! Salvation was ours!. We continued up the mountain and finally made it to the calm and peaceful home of one of the coffee growers. We were greeted enthusiastically and chairs were brought out from the tiny -- maybe 10ft by 10ft. house and we were encouraged to take a seat.under some flowering trees by the side of the house. Okay, I asked Where are the coffee plants? I could tell by their amused expressions that I was offering them some humour! You're sitting under it, Fransique explained. Abundant laughter form the farmer and his sons erupted! Meanwhile, the lady of the house had made great preparations to serve us coffee. In her bare feet she came out carrying a trayful of the most beautiful china cups I had ever seen. she was so honoured to have us visit that she wanted to show us her gratitude in the most fitting way she possibly could. I couldn't refuse a cup of her fine brew--- for which, later, my innards most heartily disapproved! I came away humbled by these strong resilient farmers who are trying to eke out a living from the land far away from the problems of the city. Bravo for Fransique for trying to provide a living for these farmers so that they can continue enjoying their traditional way of life.
08.11.11 peter e. - greetings,
It might seem kind of strange that a boy's home-- Trinity House-- is getting involved in a coffee roasting business... but when you consider all of the positives that this will bring to Haiti it makes perfect sense. Haiti has virtually been stripped of its forest which has lead to all sorts of environmental issues.. climatic change, erosion, depletion of the fertility of the soil to name a few. But coffee-- or the cultivation of the coffee plant requires shade. Can getting the country farmers involved in the coffee trade result in an economically motivated reforestation project! I certainly hope so. The bottom line is to pay these farmers a fair trade price for their produce. If a farmer came make more growing coffee -- then why would he slash down the forest to raise cabbage? I want to tell you more about my trip up to the hills to visit the farmers who are growing the coffee beans for the coffee business at Trinity House-- but that will have to wait for another day!
08.10.11 lucy d. - my story;
I have been a part of St. Joseph's family from the beginning. I made my first trip to Haiti in 1985 with a medical mission. Just before myself and friend left for Haiti. Michael's mother gave us his address. He had just returned to Haiti to establish a home for the first five boys he had previously worked with when he was a Brother of Charity. We got into a taxi, gave the driver the address, we did not speak creole and the driver didn't speak English. What a leap of faith. We arrived at Michael's house behind the cardboard factory a little later. We visited with Michael and the boys in that very small two room house. They were sleeping on straw mats on the floor and had no furniture. They did have cooking utensils for a charcoal fire. As we were leaving one of the boys said he would like some glasses so he could see better. My friend Maury took off her glasses and gave them to him. He now teaches at Wings of Hope.
08.09.11 hannalore - dear michael,
it is just the most beautiful experience to read all the mails.
Please mention your Montessori program in Jacmel. All the best!
08.09.11 peter e. - greetings,
Whenever I come back from Haiti, there is always someone who asks me: "Why Haiti?" Granted, it isn't the cleanest place in the world. There isn't much to see in the way of sightseeing. It is hot, dusty and polluted. The airport is in shambles-- but I keep going simply because a certain family in Haiti.... the St. Joseph's Family-- considers me to be part of their family. The welcome one receives as soon as you enter the gates of the home is so sincere that one can not help but be caught up in the good spirit that fills the home. Every child meets you with a warm genuine smile. they are so happy that you have come to visit. So my question to anyone who might listen: "Go to Haiti! Experience for yourself the life changing experience offered by St. Joe's. I came back from Haiti a changed person and you will too!
08.08.11 peter e. - Renee;
THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME KNOW THAT YOU THINK YOU HAVE MANAGED TO STOP THE LATEST SICKNESS TO COME TO WINGS OF HOPE. IT IS ALWAYS SAD WHEN WE LOSE CHILDREN-- BUT I KNOW THAT YOU AND THE STAFF AT WINGS OF HOPE HAVE DONE EVERYTHING THEY POSSIBLY CAN TO PREVENT THE DISEASE FROM AFFECTING EVEN MORE OF OUR CHILDREN.
08.08.11 peter e. - Hello Michael,
It has so great watching the new home come up from the rubble. Such solid construction! The quantity of rebar, the steel girders between each floor showed me that when and if another comes to Haiti, our family will be protected.
08.08.11 peter e. - DEAR FRIENDS,
IT WAS SO GREAT BEING PART OF THE MEETING IN RALEIGH. ESPECIALLY HEARING EACH OF OUR LEADERS TELLING THE STORY OF HOW THEY CAME FROM THE STREETS TO BE RESCUED BY THE ST. JOSEPH'S FAMILY. THESE WERE ALL SUCH POWERFUL STORIES OF AFFIRMATION-- AND TO HEAR THEM EACH SAY HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO GIVE BACK TO THE CHILDREN OF HAITI!! POWERFUL!
08.08.11 peter e. - My great friends at St. joseph Family,
It was great to be part of your family once again this summer. Although the hot weather is something I am not used to-- being from cool Canada-- I always so much appreciate the warm welcome that I receive from every one associated with our family. You are doing great work-- lifting the children out of their despair and offering them a positive future. Thank you for all that you do for the children of Haiti.
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